I have realized something in my life that has changed remarkably. Comparing Oxford and Stac - they are completely different. How? Oxford had an equal community with and between others. they tried to be equal and same with everything they did and had - fame, money, fashion, culture, social group, etc. Sometimes it's a good thing being equal - Equality brings brotherhood and friendship and faith to our group. However, sometimes it is really good being different. Like Stac - as i came to study in this school i have seen some very strange and different kids with different profiles and biographies. Some were adopted, orphans, some grandparent's had or even have cancer and some still trying to survive from the struggle they are having. Some are dump while some are wise, some are lazy while some desire achievement and responsibility, some are talented while others still haven't figured out what they are good at. The social groups are really different - there are jocks, popular people, sluts, drug dealers, stealers, atheletes, musical people, talented people and others. I never know what group i am in - boarders, sluts, musical and talented people and popular people. And i think it is a really good thing to be different. It means that you have gained a higher level and now you have to find your own personality and thoughts. Be different.
It is not best that we should all think alike; it is a difference of opinion that makes horse races.
Again, you can't connect the dots looking forward; you can only connect them looking backwards. So you have to trust that the dots will somehow connect in your future. You have to trust in something - your gut, destiny, life, karma, whatever. This approach has never let me down, and it has made all the difference in my life.
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